Tuesday, December 18, 2018

Pet and Women Safety (PAWS) Act


Today at the headquarters of the MSPCA, Congresswomen Clark announced the passing of the PAWS act. As many of our readers know, my sister-in-law (Steph's sister Kim Parker) was a victim of domestic violence. The night of the attack, shoe-less and without a coat, she managed to get the dogs out of the house away from her abuser husband. Her two beloved golden retrievers were by her side when she died licking her face to wake her up. This law will help those victims of domestic violence  who have to care for their pets as well as themselves during the most trying of times. Steph strongly advocated for this law.
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Help Domestic Violence Survivors Find Safety: Support the Pet and Women Safety (PAWS) Act

Any member of a household can become a victim of domestic violence: spouses or partners, children, elderly relatives, even companion animals. In fact, many human victims are reluctant to leave if they cannot take their pets with them, for fear of what the abuser might do to their pets. The PAWS Act will help bridge the gap between the tremendous need for services for domestic violence survivors with pets and the ability of agencies to meet those needs.
The Connection Between Domestic Violence and Animal Cruelty
Sixty-eight percent of all US households—82.5 million homes—include a companion animal.[i] In most cases they are cherished members of the family. However, when there is violence in the home, it can be directed at the pets as well as the people who live there. Pets are often treasured sources of emotional support, unconditional love, and stability for abused partners and children. Abusers are well aware of the bond between their victims and their companion animals, and they exploit that bond to control, manipulate, frighten, and punish their victims. Because there are few resources for victims with pets, abusers’ threats to harm the pets are often effective, thus locking victims and their companion animals in a cycle of abuse.

26 Comments:

At December 18, 2018 at 4:39 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congrats to you and Steph Jim for all you do on this issue. Heartbreaking to read about the dogs licking your sister-in-laws face to wake her up the night she died. My sincere condolences to you and Steph

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:03 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I read this posting and then cried for 15 minutes picturing these dogs trying to wake your sister-in-law up while she was dead. How heartbreaking an image. Hope this bill prevents anyone else from suffering that awful death. I can not get that picture out of my head. So very very sad

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:05 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

GUT WRENCHING. HOPE THE BASTARD IS LOCKED UP FOREVER WHAT HAPPENED TO THE DOGS?

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:17 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

sad story but do you really think this new act will change anything assholes will remain assholes no matter what regs you pass to stop them

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:20 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Did this happen in Framingham? I never heard anything about this before.

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:23 PM , Blogger jim pillsbury said...

He's been moved from Shirley to Norfolk and did not pursue his payroll hearing this month. He may be let out next year after serving 4 of the 4 to 6 year sentence. The investigation into the cause of her death is still going on, thanks to Steph's persistence, Mike Baudett from Fox and now channel 5 and the Brockton Enterprise.

After Kim's death the family asked the abuser if they could take the dogs, we never heard a word about what their fate was.. along with Kim's ashes.

As the years pass we still have hope for the things that could have and should have been investigated are now being reviewed by the authorities. I still believe strongly that he poisoned her so she could not testify against him.

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:24 PM , Blogger jim pillsbury said...

Not in Framingham, E Bridgewater over 5 years ago now.

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:31 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I hope the dogs ate the bastard

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:32 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Has he been charged in her death, and if not, why not after all this time?

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:33 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

sounds like another guy being blamed by some woman for something he did not do if you ask me we have all seen this before if he killed her he would be charged,right?

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:34 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

No idea where the dogs are or your sister-in-laws ashes? What a low life this guy must be

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:35 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just saw this on the local news. Unbelievable story. Glad Rep. Clark is working to help these women. As to the idiot saying this abuser is innocent, what planet do you live on?

 
At December 18, 2018 at 5:49 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

In the culture we live in now we see more and more cases of abuse, either because men feel they can get away with it more than in the past or because women feel they can speak more openly about it because of the Me too movement. Whatever the reason we need to find a way to help these women, and the children that live in these abusive homes or we will be creating a generation of abusers and the cost of that will be very high.

 
At December 18, 2018 at 8:10 PM , Blogger jim pillsbury said...

https://www.boston25news.com/video?videoId=891012411&videoVersion=2.0

https://www.nbcboston.com/news/local/PAWS-Act-to-Help-Protect-Pets-and-Humans-From-Domestic-Violence-Katherine-Clark-Donald-Trump-503086341.html

https://www.necn.com/news/new-england/PAWS-Act-to-Help-Protect-Pets-and-Humans-From-Domestic-Violence-Katherine-Clark-Donald-Trump-503086341.html

 
At December 18, 2018 at 8:11 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Unbelievable

 
At December 18, 2018 at 8:32 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Saw this story on Fox tonight. Curious why no local coverage

 
At December 18, 2018 at 8:43 PM , Blogger jim pillsbury said...

me too. The MWDN was notified of the event. Petroni media did something on the big picture... but not the local aspect.

 
At December 18, 2018 at 8:45 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

That’s why no one reads the local press. They cover fluff and what they want to cover with no concern about a big story like this with a local connectio

 
At December 19, 2018 at 9:07 AM , Blogger jim pillsbury said...

there are and were many reasons why he wasn't charged with her murder at the time of her death. One is that the first re-sponders knew Rich Parker and relied on his statements as to why Kim had died. Two, he had Kim cremated before any real investigation could occur. Three, the ME's office was not alerted to the fact that domestic violence could have lead to her demise. Forth, the DA's office did not investigate the circumstances around Kim's death until years later, after Steph had got the media involved and the meeting we had with the local police chief.
There are many involved in this case and some bare some responsibility for the lack of justice for Kim. Some are covering their tracks. And a few are just plain negligent. How would you feel if your sister was found dead with no apparent reason why? Would you do everything you could to get justice for a loved one?

 
At December 19, 2018 at 10:24 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is this for real? How old was Steph's sister? What was the cause of death, did she have a heart attack or something?

 
At December 19, 2018 at 10:48 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Most people would be too devastated to do anything but grieve. I give you and Steph and your family a lot of credit for waging this fight. DV victims don't want to speak about their ordeals, but if no one raises their voice, then no one knows what is going on. Every cause needs to have a face and a personal story. I am sorry your family has to fill that role on this issue locally, but I aplaud you all for doing it

 
At December 19, 2018 at 11:02 AM , Blogger Jim Pillsbury said...

she was 45 and the cause of death is STILL undetermined. She was a very healthy women, other than the injuries she suffered due to her abusive husband.
There is no choice in uncovering the truth about her death.

 
At December 19, 2018 at 11:48 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

So do they expect to ever be able to determine her cause of death? Sounds pretty fishy to me

 
At December 19, 2018 at 12:06 PM , Blogger jim pillsbury said...

there is movement in this matter and outside experts are being consulted is all I can say now.

 
At December 19, 2018 at 1:11 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I hope you post the results of that "movement" whenever it happens and I hope it happens soon

 
At December 9, 2019 at 2:27 AM , Blogger gopipatel said...

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